Posted by rainyday on April 13, 2004, at 15:07:48
In reply to How Do I stand it...Again?, posted by DaisyM on April 13, 2004, at 13:32:49
Daisy, isn't it odd how relationships change with time - the strong partner needs help and the spouse is bewildered (and angry, and feeling guilty for the anger) at having to shoulder the responsibilities.
You are incredibly strong! You will look back on these days and wonder where it came from and how you managed to cope.
Keep talking through these difficult times - you've had lots of great advice on this thread already. I wish I had had that kind of support and encouragement when I was going through my bumpy marriage troubles.
Please take care of yourself. Cry, yell, release your negative energy, and build your reserves. Talk to a therapist. Be very kind to yourself. You have many many friends here.
rainyday
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