Posted by TexasChic on March 30, 2004, at 10:04:31
In reply to Re: I can’t do this » TexasChic, posted by lonelygirl on March 29, 2004, at 15:25:09
I checked out the Psyc board and I have to admit the stalking the T thing is not something I'm equipped to advise anyone on (which is why I'm posting to you here.) Its obviously a pretty common thing though! And I can see how it could happen. Here you are sharing your most private thoughts with this person, and they are understanding and not judging you. It could easily be the most intimate relationship a person has in during a difficult time in their lives.
I was curious if you've tried changing to a female T, or if you've tried talking to your current one about this. It seems as if the stalking thing (and I use this term because it is what was used to describe it, not in any derogatory way) may be keeping you from benefiting as much as you could from therapy. Anyway, that's just my opinion. Take it for what its worth. I just know how much therapy has helped, and is still helping me, so I try to encourage others about it
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