Posted by NewMom on January 13, 2004, at 17:53:04
In reply to Re: Erotic transference, posted by Angielala on January 13, 2004, at 15:44:56
> It's probably going to make me look weird by asking but... what is erotic transference?
>
> > Can erotic transference apply to other doctors
> besides therpists? Like an GP or OB/GYN?
>
>From what I read, it's when a person has feelings of love towards their theripsts. One reason that is cited is because the patient is looking for love from his/her mother that they didn't get.
For me that's not it. I have a huge crush on my doctor. I mean, I fantasize about this guy. He's recently single, my age, incredibly attractive, (the bluest eyes I've ever seen!) has a gentle mannerism, and is very easy-going. I'm happily married (most of the time!) with a new baby, but I can't help feeling like I'd rather be with my doctor. My last appointment with him (for the next year) was last week. In fact, we want to have another baby and I think I want to get pregnant again right away just so I can begin to regularly see him again.
I know I just have to get over it, as it will never happen. I'm trapped in my house right now, as I can't take the baby out because of the raging flu epidemic here. Maybe when I return to work and have something else to think about, the feelings will fade. I hope so.
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