Re: Tabitha is too kind

Posted by Dinah on December 15, 2003, at 2:17:00

In reply to Re: Kara - Tabitha is wise, posted by tabitha on December 15, 2003, at 0:50:34

Dating is dating. Trying each other on for size. You didn't cut him off coldly. You decided that he wasn't the right fit. Maybe a few years ago, he would have been the right fit for you as you were then. (no offense, Tabitha. I didn't know you then. I'm just going by what you said.) Maybe a few years from now he would have been the right fit for you now. But you just weren't in the same place in your evolution.
No harm, no foul. If he had been able to move the relationship back to pure friendship with no hard feelings, I'm sure you wouldn't have minded. One of my best friends is a guy who wasn't a good match.
Don't take more responsibility than you deserve.

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A List of Criticisms tabitha 12/14/03
Kara - Tabitha is wise (nm) fallsfall 12/14/03
Re: Kara - Tabitha is wise tabitha 12/15/03
Re: err... tabitha 12/15/03
Re: Tabitha is too kind Dinah 12/15/03
Re: Tabitha is too kind tabitha 12/15/03
What I was trying to say.. fallsfall 12/15/03
Re: Tabitha is too kind » tabitha madwand 12/15/03
Re: What I was trying to say.. » fallsfall tabitha 12/15/03
Re: Tabitha is too kind » madwand tabitha 12/15/03
Re: Tabitha is too kind » tabitha madwand 12/15/03
Re: Tabitha is too kind » tabitha Dinah 12/15/03

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