Posted by Chicklet on October 6, 2003, at 12:07:55
In reply to Nikki and jyl..., posted by galkeepinon on October 6, 2003, at 10:35:43
Really, kristen, please just stop it. if you wanted to continue to support and help others, you wouldn't have 'come clean'. It's as they say about a spouse that has cheated...they often end up fessing up not because it's all for the best of the deceived spouse, but to alleviate their feelings of guilt.
Leave Nikki alone. Leave JYL alone. Leave me alone. I wasn't even directly affected but I read all of your posts (which have since been deleted) and I am flabergasted that you would ask for support.
>> Nikki, I wasn't the only one who said hurtful things,
Stop it. Just stop it.
Yeah Nikki knows this 'in her heart'. you are so right. She's just awful isn't she?
Sweet screamin' moses.
kristen, I don't remember how old you are but all of this is like a 7th grade cat fight. You must be able to empathize...you hurt a LOT of people. You lied. Again and again and again. If you wanted support and only support, that would have been fine. Maybe.>>I'm not here for drama, you can choose to do whatever you choose to do.
So why are you here, exactly? You seem to be getting the attn and stirring things up just like last time. How would you ever be able to post again as yourself? People are not acting overly touchy. You've created this.
>>I'm really sorry you're so angry about this. I truly hope someday you can let it go.
Please stop throwing this back at others. I truly do believe that you might actually feel this way...I doubt but it, but I guess it's possible.
>>There's a lot of things I could say~but I won't because I choose not to
Go ahead and say them then. Because I don't really feel as if anything else you've been doing has helped people to understand all of this...
>>the tone of your post seem to be changing..you asked for input of yet angain another deception
Yup.
>>i am wondering if you are " getting off " on being able to "play with people"
yeah I think we can probably conclude that this is the situation. Maybe we should stop posting to you. Maybe we already are posting to you, you know?--what's your posting name again? Oh look, I'm being bratty.
People come here to feel safe. We've all established some trust for the people we've 'met' here. But how are we supossed to trust again?
I mean it. Really.
It's just not fair.>>I don't play games anymore jyl,
huh.
really?>>may be your perception that the tone of my posts may be changing, that's your right to think that,
You're making people mad, Kristen. really. but the worst is that I think you maybe are acting passive agressively. i'm trying to be nice here. I said 'maybe', see?
I guess i need to remind you that you thanked jyl a day or two ago. She supported you, remember? Ouch
ouch.>> I am certainly not 'getting off' on this, I will not reply to anymore questions, accusations, or posts that question a possibility of me using different names
Kristen. You asked for feedback. you even asked what the board thought about you posting here. I think you even said something like, "Should I stop posting here?"...
>>and I have a right to be here like anyone else. I am staying.
Well I hate to say this (no, I guess I don't), but you've changed the whole dynamic by coming back the way you did. You want to feel welcomed. Well there are a bunch of people here that do not like what you've done and probably will never like you posting here. So keep on, by all means. but don't expect things to ever be the same.
>>I'm sorry if you may not feel the same way
Oh, I don't know about that. If you truly are, then maybe you should present all of this in a differnt light.
The funny thing about all of this is that i'll probably get banned. because I'm speaking my mind and I sound accusatory. ANd you don't because you are pretending to be sincer and forgiving.
You brought this on yourself.
And don't tell me to make it a good day.
It's already good, thanks.I'm not getting upset or emotional or depressed by all of this. just really angry. And not in a bipolar kind of way. I guess you can expect to hear from me again.
Please just take everyone's feelings into consideration, ok?
No...you really haven't.Bob- we need to chat.
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