Posted by Susan J on August 21, 2003, at 13:16:08
In reply to Roommate acting weird again..., posted by Penny on August 21, 2003, at 9:10:40
Fallsfall's suggestion about the numbers/smiley faces is very cool! Lighten up a situation that seems heavy right now, and still be very practical.
I'm sorry it's been so rough for you. I moved in with my best friend in college -- and it destroyed our friendship. Granted, both of us were very immature and couldn't/didn't communicate very well. I think it's probably just as hard to move in with a friend as it is with a lover. The whole dynamic changes.
I think you are doing a great job communicating with her. Hang in there. Perhaps tell her you really value your friendship with her, and realize living together might be putting a strain on it, or at the least, changing it. ? Just a thought.
poster:Susan J
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