Posted by Susan J on August 13, 2003, at 8:16:22
In reply to Re: How do I get away from messed-up people? » Susan J, posted by gabbix2 on August 12, 2003, at 15:49:10
Wow, you sound like my twin. :-)
Even though it hurts me (quite often), I'd rather still see people postively...makes life nicer. But I'm still working on how to truly understand that there are faults other people have that are bad bad bad for me to be around....
I broke up with my long-term boyfriend about a year and a half ago. He was horrible for me, not abusive or anything, just not "right." I'm a neatnik, he's a slob. I earn a salary so he stopped working.....that type of thing.
But you know, he's been really cool, then and now, about putting up with me crying on the couch, too. :-) I think he is the one and only person I've ever met that has been there for me in that regard for so long.....and I'm very lucky to have him. Wish I could have made it work as a romantic relationship, but it's just not there...
Good luck with everything. :-)
Susan
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