Posted by fallsfall on August 11, 2003, at 16:39:04
In reply to How do I get away from messed-up people?, posted by Susan J on August 11, 2003, at 14:35:40
My first reaction was that he was terrified of what you were going through and didn't feel that he could handle it. My second reaction was that he was a jerk. You know him better - which do you think is true?
Why are YOU feeling crappy? You asked him for a reasonable thing and he gave you an unreasonable answer. Then he expects you to pretend it never happened. I'm not seeing where you did anything wrong. Even telling him to stay away is just defending yourself - which you have every right to do.
I think you've done fine. Am I missing something?
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