Posted by kara lynne on July 26, 2003, at 14:06:50
In reply to Re: Be NICE to the Kitties....gabbi, posted by gabbix2 on July 23, 2003, at 11:08:01
I talked to the woman who runs the class-she agreed that the women were rude, but insisted they were 'wounding from their own wounds'; that they feel like they have to blow things up in order to matter, yadda yadda...
At least she validated what went on. She said she felt helpless to do much about it. I said it was really alienating for them to be talking about this amazing event that the rest of us were not invited to, not to mention that everyone in the room was also either married or pregnant--or invited to this magical wedding.
I have the option of going to another class at a different time, which didn't seem quite fair because I've been going to this class for 10 years. But she said the fairness comes in how I respond in those situations...how I take care of myself.
It's certainly not worth another Monday night fetal position.
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