Posted by noa on July 17, 2003, at 18:59:09
In reply to Re: Therapist/ Friend update--noa, posted by kara lynne on July 15, 2003, at 18:51:01
Kara, it does seem like a bizarre thing for your therapist to say! I can see how that would rattle you.
The way you describe the relationship--sounds like an *arrangement* more than a real relationship. I liked Gracie's advice up above--envisioning what marriage would be like with this guy. You definitely deserve more than that in a relationship!!
He sounds like a total jerk to me--trying to blame your not being Suzy Homemaker for his sexual problems--he sounds so darn manipulative and controlling.
Take one step at a time, but it sounds like not being with him is going to be better for your health.
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