Posted by whiterabbit on May 20, 2003, at 0:48:51
In reply to I So Late, posted by kara lynne on May 19, 2003, at 21:45:10
For heavens sake, you've HAD some bad luck. I was fortunate in that area, my first therapist turned out to be a very good match for me. But I've picked some bad apples myself out of the insurance provider book, I suspect that happens to nearly everyone with alarming frequency. I had a GP whose peculiar ways started to spill over into downright wierdness. The last couple of times I went to see him at his private office, he was accompanied by a young man in a white coat who was introduced as a resident or intern or something, but he didn't look like any resident or intern to me. He was really scruffy and he smelled bad. I got the creeps and didn't go back.
My next GP was another loser and I dumped him pretty fast. The guy I have now is great, though-
very smart, very careful, very concerned. I feel safe with him, which is how you SHOULD feel with any medical professional worth their salt. I'm in the medical field myself and part of my job is to convey to the patient that they are in good hands.
Actually, that's a fine description for many people who are good at their jobs, whether you're hiring a lawyer or a caterer. You should feel confident that you are dealing with someone who is competent and cares for your well-being without crossing the professional line.I don't think you feel that way with your current therapist/counselor and I can sure understand why you would feel discouraged after the experience you've had. I know it's hard to cut your losses and start all over again...all we can do is cheer you on and reassure you that there ARE good therapists out there, and you need a really good one to overcome the emotional damage that's been done by some decidedly unprofessional professionals. And part of being a good therapist is maintaining the distinctive roles of therapist and patient.
-Gracie
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