Posted by kara lynne on March 11, 2003, at 13:09:56
In reply to Hi Gabbix (and I 3rd the get a grip quip blip), posted by kara lynne on March 11, 2003, at 12:59:14
There are parents who are horribly abusive; I think it's dangerous to tell people to be grateful for them until we know the circumstances. Some children end up self-destructive over their guilt and conflict at recognizing that, and even kill themselves in their 'gratitude'. Until you separate and see the situation for what it is, gratitude can be premature and dangerous. This is different than not taking responsibility for your life; it is taking the utmost responsibility for your sanity.
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