Posted by Rach on February 15, 2003, at 21:49:52
In reply to Re: Alone On Valentine's Day, posted by kara lynne on February 15, 2003, at 1:25:39
> ...he has serious problems that affect the relationship and he is unwilling to get help for them, so there is nothing more I can do...
...I just want some divine intervention to help me move...
That's not going to happen, honey. You obviously know that this relationship is unhealthy and that nothing is going to change until you create the change. You'll never be able to get your depression under control whilst in this relationship. You love him, but one day you will recognise that you need to love yourself first of all, and that means putting you above all others.
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