Posted by jane d on November 26, 2002, at 10:45:53
In reply to Re: Thanksgiving day dilemma, rambling » Tabitha, posted by Ginjoint on November 24, 2002, at 17:58:14
> Believe me, bay-bee, I DO often have this dilemma. Know what I'm doing for Thanksgiving? Spending it with my mother's friend and her family. How pathetic is that? My mother won't even be there - she's travelling to see her brother's family, whom I can't stand anyway. But you know, when the invite for dinner came, I thought screw it, I know these people and they're really nice folks. (And great cooks). If I start feeling awkward I can always leave a little sooner. Plus, like you, I know I'll have the rest of the holiday to be alone ....
Ginjoint,
Some of the best Thanksgivings I've had have been at the homes of friends of friends or relatives who have invited me, seemingly as an afterthought, because they knew I'd be alone. The other guests they often invite are usually interesting and it's often more pleasant than many family gatherings. Maybe that's because only people who expect to have an enjoyable holiday are likely to invite other other people to share it with them. I hope your day is like that.Jane
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