Posted by JohnDoenut on March 17, 2002, at 23:34:34
In reply to Re: Ugh » JohnDoenut, posted by LiLi80 on March ave1C 2002, at 23:00:30
Hi Lili80. Thanks for replying! Im going to comment...
> As a woman I am deeply offended by the comment saying that you are now responsible for your wife now. I don't think she thinks of your marriage like that, then again I could be wrong.
>As a *person* I am deeply offended (ok, not really but just for arguments sake. . . :) that you would judge not only me but my wife based on so little information or facts of our situation or how we live our lives and would make a judgement about that like this. People come here to vent and to just talk to other people without worrying about being judged unfairly.
The fact is if one person makes the money then they are responsible for paying for living expenses and food etc. If the other person doesnt work or make enough money to hardly pay for any of that then thats just how things are. You are in school now but once you are out of school you'll understand this. There's nothing really to be offended about except by one's own prejudices and preconceptions. I suggest when you have a reaction like this that you examine what's inside not out. :) Im not being angry with you or anything, just telling you how I see and feel about this.
> I took time to get healthy and that time taken has screwed me over.
I think it was time well spent. You can graduate later.
Anyway whatever I cant get too personal about my situation. Who knows who's reading this stuff anyway. . . :)
JohnD
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