Posted by sar on July 18, 2001, at 0:56:15
In reply to Re: Really Bad Day, posted by mila on July 17, 2001, at 22:24:40
Dear Roo,
I've felt guilty for years =for dumping s boyfirnd whom I considered "not cute enough" to marry or have children with.
and i do feel gulity for hving loved on him for more than 2 years...but i knew rhat if i'd have marrued him, there;d be resentment on my part. i loved him enough as a human being to let him go.
i still miss him. & what if he'd had a prettier face? i don't know. Nothing in human existence is fair.
Go with your instincts, chile. If you feel hesitant and cautious, wait. if you feel passionate and loving long enough, marry. there is no sensive advice here, it is all in your heart.
love,
sar
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