Posted by ksvt on February 5, 2001, at 15:55:20
In reply to Re: tdaneen - How go the custody wars? , posted by tdaneen on February 5, 2001, at 11:10:23
>T - I'm not at all sorry I asked because I'm sure there are lots of folks here who are prepared to give you whatever support we can. I'm not familiar with your history so I didn't understand the reference to flashbacks. Also it seems like your new male friend should be a positive and not "and another thing" kind of deal, or does it have something to do with the flashbacks or is it the stress of having to introduce him to your parents and worrying about how they'll respond. How does your daughter get along with him? Is the fact that this guy is in your life a problem for the STBX? Sometimes I get these overwelming feelings that I don't want to be responsible to or for any person and certainly not for myself. The reality for us Moms is of course really different, but you might consider that taking care of yourself is a critical component of taking care of your daughter, and treat yourself gently. K
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