Posted by coral on November 26, 2000, at 21:15:35
In reply to Argh!, posted by Racer on November 26, 2000, at 21:04:27
Dear Racer,
awwwww, Racer, I'm sorry...... the rotten cellar demons are at it again. If this helps at all, trust your SO right now. He sees value in you, whether it's hidden from you or not. Just trust him until the cellar demons are shut up again.
Don't be a "good" patient and believe your doctor. Who knows if he's right or not!?!
You have a chunk of stress with the new job starting tomorrow and that may be what's looming so large for you and the . . . "What if . . ." demons are screaming. One of the ways I've learned to shut up the "what if . . ." demons is to out-shout them. WHAT IF I SCREW UP THIS JOB??? So what? I've been unemployed before and survived."
Talk to yourself the same way you talked to your mare when she still heard the opening gate .... use the compassion you've given her on yourself.
Take care, sugar...
Coral
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