Posted by shar on September 26, 2000, at 12:49:51
In reply to They don't deserve you., posted by shar on September 25, 2000, at 21:37:46
Hi, Racer.
As you can tell by my previous post I'm sort of in anger mode these days--better than suicidal, so says my counselor.Anyhow, congrats on your epiphany, next time I bet you won't have as hard a time recognizing what's happening. Your "I-have-to-fix-it detector" is starting to work. You will feel (as in your gut) something isn't right. That's the first step, then your gut feeling can lead you to "how come I feel this isn't right". And you will figure out what is happening.
It's interesting, we talked about this very issue (detectors, how we grow up without them (usually because of abuse or family dysfunction), and have to grow our own now) in my group last night.
Good luck. And I really strongly encourage you to contact Greg, he is an angel on earth (but don't tell him I said so). And my offer still stands too.
Shar
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