Posted by noa on September 25, 2000, at 8:47:13
In reply to Screaming misery and frustration, posted by Racer on September 25, 2000, at 4:29:12
Racer, you sound like you are at the crossroads of Angry Street and Depressed Avenue and aren't sure which way to go. Well, veer right onto angry street, girl!!!
You know how you want to be treated and it isn't how they are treating you and it is normal in the beginning to give them the benefit of the doubt for a little while, but now you realize they have taken more benefit and given you more doubt, so it is time to get angry and tell yourself you deserve to be treated better.
Stop blaming yourself for "letting them treat you this way", etc. You aren't letting them. You kind of hung in there for a bit to see if it was SOP or not, and now enough time has gone by to see that it is more SOP than just some random glitches. So, now you are ready to make a judgment about the situation.
And I would be really pissed off, if I had moved and all for a new job that turned out to be so disappointing. But it is NOT a sign of failure in you, it is the failure of the job to be what you expected, which is hard to know before you get in there and live it, and you are dependent upon the info they gave you to get you to join their company!
Please, don't blame yourself.
poster:noa
thread:675
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20000813/msgs/679.html