Dealing with grief after loss of mother

Posted by Dona on August 18, 2000, at 17:26:51

My mom died in Feb and I think I have been dealing fairly well with grief--went through depression and have seen psych and therapist and combo of talk and meds has helped. My problem is that my sister is an attorney and executor of estate, and for her own problems, she became angry with me after the funeral and refused to let me look through my mom's things. I went home ( I live 3000 miles away) with a few pictures and mementos of my mom and dad. Today I got a form letter from my sister and she is sharing some of the things she found when she went through my mother's belongings. I should be glad she is sharing, but I am so resentful that I did not have the opportunity to do what she did. How do I deal with this resentment--would it do any good to tell her??? I guess I think not because she is such an angry person.

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