Posted by CasinoNight on February 10, 2009, at 11:27:34
In reply to Re: Beginning a new relationship triggered anxiety/dep, posted by w_brigade on February 10, 2009, at 1:51:29
Well I'm a guy, and I know exactly what you're going through. I've been waiting and waiting to meet someone. I've been single for a good while now and now that I have met someone that I like I'm more anxious and feeling more depressed than ever.
I actually broke it off with her, and then she broke it off with me... twice, and now we're back on. She's been very moody and I suspect that she might be going through a similar thing. I can see our actions reflected in one anothers.
But I think that my anxiety might be making me send out the wrong messages. For example I'm finding it very hard to initiate intimacy... not just sex but just a simple kiss when I see her. I want to talk to her about it, but I can't approach the subject, I'm worried I'll just make her uncomfortable.
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