Posted by raisinb on December 14, 2008, at 14:18:13
In reply to I would really appreciate some advice and insight, posted by Asya on December 13, 2008, at 19:59:33
Lots of possibilities here! My thoughts are:
1) You haven't met the right person yet, or
2) You have some problems with intimacy (and most of us do, that's why there's therapy!) It is hard to feel anything for someone when you do not know how to be vulnerable with them.
3) This is a long shot, but how do you feel about your sexuality? Do you feel like you might desire women, or connect with women, more than you do men? I hope that doesn't offend you; it's just something that came to mind when I read your post. Sometimes people who eventually decide that they are more gay than straight begin by being unable to connect intimately with the opposite sex. I personally have had experiences with both women and men (I am female) and have been in love with both. Sexuality is complicated and not always black and white.Good luck ;)
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