Posted by Asya on December 13, 2008, at 19:59:33
Hi all-
I am really hoping someone can shed some light or commiserate with me. I am almost 30 years old but I have never had a serious boyfriend and I don't really undestand what this FEELS like or what it is supposed to involve. I have been physically intimate wih men, my sex drive isn't an issue, it is more that I hate dating, don't really have a desire to do it much, and never really feel those sparks or anything with anyone. I don't have much of a motivation to really spend time with a guy in an intimate way (meaning emotionally intimate). I don't know if this is making sense, but my bottom line is - I don't know what it is I am supposed to do to be with someone, even when guys like me I can't bring myself to reciprocate. Any insihts would be appreciated.
poster:Asya
thread:868597
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