Posted by Jetera on November 25, 2007, at 12:26:07
In reply to Re: breaking up is hard to do » Jetera, posted by zenhussy on November 25, 2007, at 10:53:35
Hi Zenhussy,
Thank you for your reassurance. It is tough to let go but you are right that I need time alone to heal.
Your words of encouragement give me strength.
J.
> Jetera,
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> Gosh that is a lot to have gone through in 25 years. Agree w/ your GP about the caregiver/patient relationship....must have been hard to hear but also maybe a little relief as someone else saw and knew how hard it has been.
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> Definitely go for the counseling. >>I want him to get counseling to deal with the breakup, not to reunite.<< that's good you're clear about what you want and need!
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> you need some time to allow yourself to find yourself after so many years of being drained from the caretaking role you ended up in.
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> good luck for taking gentle steps on this healing journey.
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> p.s. welcome to babble.
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