Posted by caraher on September 3, 2007, at 21:07:39
In reply to Sex within marriage and infidelity, posted by Racer on September 3, 2007, at 15:05:07
"I know the answers, but I can't find an answer which doesn't include some major sacrifice on my part."
Right. So which sacrifices do you make? The one you're making now? You're at least accustomed to it, so it's probably less scary than changing.
I'm sorry I don't know all your details, about you and about your husband. I don't know what you've tried to change things. I assume you HAVE tried; if not, that's the obvious first thing to look at...
I've got my own problems so I'm not one to feign wisdom here. (I guess my problems are more having such a hard time with mundane, day-to-day interactions with my wife. Oh, and maybe deeper stuff too... I mostly try not to think about it.)
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