Posted by karen_kay on May 22, 2007, at 20:30:53
In reply to Revenge on people who have hurt you, posted by rjlockhart on May 12, 2007, at 17:01:24
it really sounds like you're hurting rj. if these people make you feel this way, then why not just choose to not be around them? of course, your family, you don't always have a choice. but sometimes with friends, i've found distance is better. honestly, i'm having a situation with a friend who lives over an hour away, but i can hardly stand to talk to her on the phone anymore. her negativity just bleeds through. and i have to make a choice, you know? is that option available for you dear?
if a relationship is tearing you up like this sweeite, it soudns like it's not worth it. you have to come first, you know?
one other thing too... not taking your meds? not to sound motherly, but.... i am a mother you know. hey, mothers can be hot too! (and i sure am :)
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