Posted by DannaB on April 12, 2007, at 22:29:39
In reply to No phone calls; so frustrating!, posted by Cynthia_Greene on April 6, 2007, at 16:53:50
I don't think this is normal or reasonable behavior. I had a similar situation recently and that's why this guy is my ex.
The issue, I would think, is that it's important for you to hear from him. If you've expressed this to him and he still doesn't make an effort (for example, getting a cell phone) then in a way he is telling you that your needs (which are totally reasonable) aren't important enough. I also happen to feel that it's disrespectful to wait until the last minute to make plans with you.
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