Posted by Honore on April 6, 2007, at 20:17:40
In reply to No phone calls; so frustrating!, posted by Cynthia_Greene on April 6, 2007, at 16:53:50
What do you think, Cynthia?
The thing is, we dont' know the person y ou're seeing. For us to guess what it means would be kind of unhelpful, because we'd be making up something, based on imagination, rather than any experience or real knowledge about your friend.
You're in a much better position not only to know, but to ask him why he doesn't call. Does he not like talking on the phone? is he busy? does he go to sleep early? only he can give you his answer, and only you can interpret the circumstances around what happens, including his answers.
I'd ask. Not in a harsh or critical way, but because I'd like to know. I'd even say I'd like us to talk during the week. Maybe he should get a cell if he's in a relationship, so you can keep in touch.
That's an important thing in as a relationship grows.
Honore
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