Posted by Cynthia_Greene on March 29, 2007, at 18:33:32
In reply to Re: good post, gazo......., posted by gazo on March 29, 2007, at 16:42:10
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> Your question isn't even about him IMO. It's about you. You have issues surrounding abandonment from what you say.. and remember, not an expert here. Him being BP isn't related, it's just a target for the anxiety you have. That isn't meant to offend. You have worries that are natural, but it's up to you to decide if the degree is natural. If it is interferring with you having or enjoying relationships then you might consider going to talk therapy.
>I already go to talk therapy and take Valium ( and used to take Xanax) and all of this stuff helps with worrying but I still can't stop worrying about this one thing because a relationship is completely new to me. I have no prior rational knowledge about how to tell when a guy cares about me, so it's scary to go along without a game plan.
Thanks for posting though. I feel a lot better about him now.
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