Posted by Phillipa on September 12, 2006, at 20:32:29
In reply to Re: age in relationships *trigger* » wishingstar, posted by ClearSkies on September 12, 2006, at 5:09:30
Well I can tell my experiences. And please don't judge. As I barring my soul. But first marriage we were the same age and had our kids. Was married for 21 years. First baby at l9. Then I married an older rich man . l5 years difference. We traveled the World and the Caribbean. He was Dutch and his family was in Europe. I spent around six weeks total in Switzerland, France, Austria, Belgium, Holland, Denmark, Germany. Same thing happedned to him at age 55 he lost his job to a Fortune 500 company. I had bought a summer condo in VA Beach we lived in CT. Went there for the summer. All my kids and him followed me there. So I sold it and bought a hughe house. Then he began after buying his franchise, a Formula boat, and many expensive gifts for me. I realized he would take me down the tube with him cause he couldnt run a business. Divorced him. Married a union truckdriver my age. Lasted about three years as he had no education and I did. Then met my current husband who is l3 years younger than me. A disater as I'm getting old and physical problems. So my recommendation is to either marry someone older within l0 years but never a younger man as you will look and feel older after menopause. Or someone your own age. Love Phillipa who would rather be working and living alone again.
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