Posted by ClearSkies on April 17, 2006, at 21:00:13
In reply to i cried all week long....what a horrible week., posted by alesta on April 17, 2006, at 13:37:53
It's a huge thing to recognise that you're in an abusive relationship. That no matter how much you try, it will never be enough.
When I left my husband (technically, he left me but I lent him the money to move out, ha ha how sick is that?) I resolved to be alone and was quite happy in my solitude. I'm still very comfortable with it, much more so since I stopped drinking. What a waste of my time! Even though I remarried eventually, it's a core part of me that I retain that desire for being with myself, by myself. I'm certainly entertaining enough...But I wanted to say that you've crossed an important line in acknowledging that your bf is an abuser.
ClearSkies
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