Posted by sleepygirl on March 1, 2006, at 22:57:07
In reply to Re: I just don't know anything about anything?(long) » Larry Hoover, posted by wanttobhappy on February 28, 2006, at 10:11:17
I'll hazard a guess here and say that it can be really hard sometimes to talk about something important or painful to you with the fear that the other person won't receive it well, and respond as you'd hope, despite your efforts
....it does make you vulnerable
to feel really hurt, really alone, really disappointed
and it can really bring to light the fact that the other person is REALLY not there for you - perhaps in the way you need them to be....and that can be so scary to find out
denial can be a wonderful thingI wish I couldn't relate to this so much...I might be projecting, I apologize if that's the case
To add another little saying..."Nothing changes if nothing changes" - simple but true
poster:sleepygirl
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