Posted by Declan on January 18, 2006, at 15:23:46
In reply to Being needy-obsessed?, posted by Judith22 on January 14, 2006, at 20:31:04
What's the problem? You can still want him, and even have him, without getting attached. That's an excellent idea. And then, if you want, you can get as attached as you want.
The rhetoric surrounding needy and obsessed is good to tune out if you can. It's so hard for us not to be colonised.
Declan
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