Posted by gardenergirl on January 8, 2006, at 15:11:25
In reply to So, on the one hand..., posted by ClearSkies on January 7, 2006, at 21:16:56
Wow!
I bow down to you.
I think you've hit on a signficant aspect of recent issues on the board...getting caught up with or taking on others' problems. That sure can muddle things up more, usually. And it's hard to spot. I know I have a hard time until I'm already riled up emotionally.
Maybe some of us could find a way to gently (and civilly) let each other know if we are worried the other might be getting caught up? Hmm, that would probably take a great deal of trust or at least tact and caring. But it's certainly possible, I think.
It sounds like you are and your T are working on an important issue. Glad it's paying off, and a big thank you for sharing this insight here.
gg
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