Posted by alesta on December 30, 2005, at 9:53:16
In reply to broke up, bullied, and other nameless s##$5, posted by alesta on December 29, 2005, at 14:01:18
update on situation: i don't want ppl here thinking i'm some kind of wimp or somethin' concerning the bullying thing cause i'm
not...(i've always been the fearless defender of others who were bullied.) but i'm forced to *live* with a group of ppl, most of whom are very nice ppl. but there is a small group of women who have continually gossiped about me, are totally rude to my face, etc. if i didn't have to live w/ them this situation would never have arisen...but i sleep near them and telling admin hasn't done much to stop their berating me. but after that night i learned to deal and they don't bother me now. i have my inner peace back and am doing fine. i don't speak to them now or engage in their conversations. it's just that when this berating started that night, i wasn't expecting it and it caught me off guard, so i wasted my energy trying to defend myself against their verbal attacks which only made the situation escalate. the simple solution i realize now is not to engage in their conversations. just wanted to share how i was dealing with this. thanks for reading.:) have a great day.:)
lesta:)
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