Posted by sunny10 on November 23, 2005, at 7:36:19
In reply to Re: Soap box! Soap box! » Deneb, posted by allisonross on November 23, 2005, at 5:09:53
If they are touched in very specific ways it is a direct hit to the "do me now" urge...
If not touched in those ways it's a big YAWN..."yeah, sure, sure hope you're having fun"
so I guess my answer to your question is that they can be both stimulating for us, and make us feel like an object...
As usual, it has to do with the intent of the other person. if they are trying to turn us on (and willing to take direction), then it is a MUTUALLY SATISFYING ACTIVITY. If the man doesn't really care about pleasing us, but is just filled with that "little boy wonder", then I feel like I could just as easily be a football...
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