Posted by alesta on November 22, 2005, at 8:23:03
In reply to Re: all right, this is probably obvious, but is th » alesta, posted by allisonross on November 21, 2005, at 15:40:54
> Alesta: Sweetie...My Gosh!!!!!!
>
> I felt sick when I read this; of course that is PHYSICAL abuse; no way to know if he knew if it was hot or not, but even if it were NOT hot, why would he do that?yes! exactly! good thinking.;)
> Sounds sadistic ; without knowing any other details; this is what i see.
there aren't any other details...it is as nonsensical (or, rather, violent) as it appears to be....:)
> I've been counseling abused women for past 10 years (just got out of 31 years of verbal abuse). I tell everyone; RUN, do not walk, and get the book which should be required reading for everyone on the planet:
>
> The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans. ALL physical abuse begins with verbal abuse.
>
> Hugs and love, and write if you would like: wacalice@aol.com (I am very concerned about you; worried about this; as I said; sounds....sadistic.thank you so so much for your concern ally...i think i am very good at denial sometimes, lol...like, not again, no..this can't be...blah...anyway. i don't know why i put up with this stuff. i must be crazy. i will walk away asap. as soon as i am not living with him anymore. he doesn't do much for me at this point..but it might be sad to leave. i'm going to try not to think about him for a while today. he is making me lose myself right now, too. sorry..depressing...i sound like a mess, don't i. thanks again ally...your thoughts are always heartily welcomed and appreciated.:)
love,
amy
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