Posted by Tamar on October 28, 2005, at 11:08:26
In reply to sick of sex....., posted by alesta on October 28, 2005, at 10:30:23
If what you want is a relationship and all you’re getting is sex, then maybe it’s time to think about why you’re with him. I guess it’s a matter of preference. I personally prefer to have sex with people I can also be friends with…
And I’m not sure I’d like to be *ordered* to have my clothes off the whole time. I prefer it if my partner suggests things… If my partner suggested an entire day naked in a hotel room I’d jump at the chance (but we have three kids and the opportunity to spend an entire day having sex is just a fantasy…). If it doesn’t appeal to you, then you don’t have to do it.
Is the sex actually good? I can imagine if it’s not very satisfying it could get tedious…
Tamar
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