Posted by Deneb on September 24, 2005, at 18:52:10
My Mom is throwing a hissy fit right now cleaning up my room. I never told her to clean my room and she never told me to clean my room. She's just cleaning my room and yelling about how disorganized I am. Why can't she just leave me alone?! It's my mess and I have to live with it!
She never tells me to do anything, then she gets really upset because no one was able to read her mind and do things themselves. She *never* asks for help...even when she broke her wrist, she just wallowed in self misery, saying that no one cared about her enough to want to help her! When someone comes to help, she just says "No,no, I don't need your help!"
She just loves making me guilty and useless. Whenever I try to do things for myself, I always do them the wrong way. Whenever I don't do something exactly the way she does it, she ends up doing it instead! I can't do anything right, even things like the laundry, washing the dishes, cooking, buying clothes, vacuuming...it's soooo annoying! I just get fed up that I can never do anything right. It makes me not want to do anything. I never have any confidence in myself because she never lets me do anything! Then she complains of burnout and it's all my fault. She just yells and yells and yells and when I go help her, she tells me to go away because she can do it all! Aaaah! Does anyone understand me?
Deneb
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