Posted by sleepygirl on August 29, 2005, at 23:02:30
In reply to Re: My parents are insane-quite mad, posted by Susan47 on August 28, 2005, at 13:19:13
It's good to see that someone has such perspective on it. I'm not anywhere close to that yet.
It really bothers me that my mother will NEVER be happy and I can't really change that-and I've lost so much of myself thinking that I could.
My family is so disconnected. I don't even know my father anymore. I saw him a couple of years ago for an hour or so, but other than that it was 16 years ago that he left, and for all the misery and chaos contained in their marriage, so it went-that's it-for nothing-less than nothing-at a real cost in fact.
I do have so many more possibilities than them, and I'm sad because of it, because it's in spite of them. Wow this really sucks. I hate being from them, and I wish this statement didn't feel so true.
Thanks for the response. :-)
poster:sleepygirl
thread:546763
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