Posted by fairywings on August 13, 2005, at 20:49:10
In reply to HELP ME, posted by woolav on August 12, 2005, at 11:50:45
What does your husband say about this sandy? I'd say a new job is the safest and sanest thing for you to do. He does sound very toxic, and he has absolutely no right to examine anything of yours. Sounds like you need to do some work on boundaries, I'm working on that too. I think there's a book called "Boundaries", but you might explore the topic to see what you can glean. Do you have a T who can help you learn to set boundaries?
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