Posted by greyskyeyes on August 12, 2005, at 15:52:24
In reply to HELP ME, posted by woolav on August 12, 2005, at 11:50:45
Is it possible/ realistic for you to look for a new job? Sometimes the best way to deal with a toxic situation (and this certainly sounds like one) is to remove yourself from it entirely.
As for your daughter, you don't have to offer any explanation except for the fact that you are her mother and you know and are doing what's best for her. He (and anyone else) can butt out. Same goes for your bank account - absolutely *none* of his business. If you (hypothetically) wanted to blow all of your savings and invest in plastic pink flamingos, that's your business and yours alone. But you know all this... and it's so much easier said than done. Sounds like he has a serious boundary problem. I feel for you. I'm generally not much of a praying person but I'll say one for you.
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