Posted by Lorne on August 5, 2005, at 14:34:14
In reply to Dating novice, posted by asya on August 5, 2005, at 1:47:44
To answer your questions in order:1. It is only not acceptable to ask a man to leave, if it is his house. If it is your house you can ask anyone to stay or go at your discretion. A little consistancy is nice, but not required.
2. If I were the man in quesiton, I would say no, you should of had sex with him. Given that I am some one you might reasonably expect decent advice from, I'd say its Ok that you didn't have sex with him. Its your body, and who you share it with is your choice. You don't "owe" it to him. It was a first date too, and I'm old fashioned about stuff like that.
3. What you do next is call him, or wait for him to call you. Calling him gets quicker results by the way. You know the relationship has long term potential when you've been dating him for a long time. By the way, why can't you be serious? You know you can work up to being serious, nothing is worse that a "serious" dater.
Lorne
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