Posted by Susan47 on July 1, 2005, at 11:47:18
In reply to Re: re-posting from relationships...anyone???, posted by woolav on July 1, 2005, at 11:05:04
I'm thinking that if he can't give you an answer about why he spent time partying with the guys, maybe it's because that's not what he was doing. Because why would that be so hard to figure out? I mean, okay, you do something, unless you're a little kid or you have really poor cognitive skills, you generally remember why you did it. Hold on though, there's something about some people, they really don't know why they do certain things. Has he shown that lack of self-awareness in other areas? Could be he is telling the truth, if that's his pattern. Maybe a therapist could help him figure out how to figure himself out?
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