Posted by woolav on July 1, 2005, at 11:05:04
In reply to Re: re-posting from relationships...anyone???, posted by AuntieMel on June 30, 2005, at 17:11:54
I dont know why he is doing this...he reassures me that he loves me and wants to be with me. I told him to think about why he is going out and would rather spend time partying with some guys and he couldnt give me an answer. He just kept saying he was sorry and wouldnt do it again..I dont think he's an alcoholic, but we both have a drink or 2 about 5 times a week.
The only other thing that has caused our marriage to be rocky was when i had the hypomania episode that ended back in april. I told him last night that I cant put up with this sort of thing, because I am not going to worry and wonder where my husband is and be calling hospitals etc..I told him It would take me some time to forgive him bc he hurt me by not thinking of my feelings once! I am sooo angry right now..I am going to see the guy he goes out with at a party this weekend, and i told my hubby that I didnt want to have anything to do with him. First off, I am mad at him for asking my husb. to go out with him drinking, when this man knows he is married. Plus, seeing him at this party is going to make me look like a fool. I feel like he will look at me and think "wow, i guess you must be a real bitch, if your husband would rather be with me than u"..
you know what i mean??? I am not going to be made the fool of, I refuse. What should I do if this sort of thing happens again? Tell him I want him to leave for a while until he can figure out what he wants??
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