Posted by happyflower on June 28, 2005, at 18:58:09
I have been married 11 years and have tried so hard to get my mil to like me. But no matter what I do it is not good enough ever. She talks behind my back, is so jeoulous of the time my husband spends with me and the our kids. We never visit enough, do enough for her, she says nasty things to me under her breath while my husband is in another room. It goes on and on.
Early on, she told my young stepkids that they didn't have to listen to me because I am not their real mom. She asks my husband if found a hot chick to be with at a convention, etc. I am so sick of her, I want to divorse her, but then I would miss my father in law, who is like a real father to me.
Then she is so critical of our young kids, makes them cry every visit.
Well they moved away 7 months ago, yipee! Well we were going to visit them next month. Well now it had to be postponed due to financial reasons. Well she told everyone that we aren't coming because I didn't like her.
Will she ever change? My husband has tried to confront her but it is a lost cause. She doesnt listen or thinks she does anything wrong. Which of course she never says she is sorry when she is wrong. I have had ENOUGH! Thanks for reading my rant!
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