Posted by NeilKramer on June 28, 2005, at 10:58:24
In reply to Re: Dating Someone with OCD » NeilKramer, posted by sunny10 on June 28, 2005, at 10:50:42
All this is good, but she also values her independence. We never go to her apt, both because she is self-conscious about it and because she needs her own space and doesn't want other people there. She doesn't even invite her best friends there, though a lot of her best friends live on her block, so she has a good setup. I don't want to condescend to her because she is very intelligent and extremely astute with men and dating. When I first started dating her, men would hit on her because you could see she was so charismatic. She also has a bit of a "bad-girl" image, but once you get to know her she is more of a traditional type, at least in regard to the bedroom. I think they should teach that to young men because so many are confused by this. Flirtation doesn't mean she wants to have sex with you. Often it is the opposite, in that the less flirtatious women at a party, the quiet ones in the corner of the room, are more quick to hop into bed and are less into playing around with intrigue.
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