Posted by Jazzed on June 27, 2005, at 15:49:20
In reply to Re: Talking erotically, sensually (might trigger s, posted by caraher on June 27, 2005, at 13:16:53
> So true! I've taken the precaution of quizzing my wife about turn on/turn off words since I'm the one more likely to babble and I'd hate to ruin the festivities by saying something stupid!You're so thoughtful! That's just a really sweet thing to do.
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> The cornball line my wife has used that I hate is "Let's make a baby." I'm sorry, it just makes me feel too much like a sperm donor rather than a lover...I can understand how it might make you feel that way, but ; ), to her it's a sweet way of saying she wants to have YOUR baby, and only YOUR baby, and no one else in the world will do because you're just so perfect, and the two of you would make the most beautiful babies in the world. Yeah, it might feel better if she said, I"m so longing to feel you inside me now, I just can't stand it another minute! While she's tearing off your shirt, and grabbing at your belt! But, to a woman who is fertile, who wants to have a baby, it's romantic!
You should ask her what goes through her mind when your making love and trying to make a baby! My thoughts were a bit unusual, so I won't go into that. Nothing kinky, just different.
Just please don't say, "let's play hide the salami!' OMGosh! That would have to be done in a very playful moment to elicit laughter!
Jazzy
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