Posted by crazyteresa on June 23, 2005, at 20:30:02
In reply to Re: i am on planet Worry » rjlockhart98, posted by Maxime on June 22, 2005, at 0:40:53
> > Anyway, i need someone to talk to about all this becuase my mom will not get me into medical treatment, and i am litterly going insane becuase she igornes it till the 'last minute' when it gets OUT of control, and still complains about that its all in my head.
Hey Matt, I'm so sorry.
Your situation must be a lot like mine was when I was younger, and it sucks big time. Unfortunately, some of us have to grow up pretty quickly, and the time for you is now. You're of age and you know you can't depend on your mother for help. This means YOU have to go get the help. You've already indicated that you need it. Do it right away--first thing in the morning if not tonight.
Since your mom's not willing to be reasonable, move out. Stop feeding her illness! Why would you want to stay there??? One of the BIGGEST improvements in my life came when I moved out of my mother's home. It wasn't easy. I was terrified. I was a single mom, I worked 3 jobs and had a roommate, but it was soooo much more peaceful; it was worth every bit of struggle. Things were even better when I moved 2 1/2 hours away from her. (For me not her. She still lives in her own hell and refuses help.)
I have a good life now. But it never would have been this good had I never taken that first step to freedom.
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